Monday, December 7, 2015

How Much is Much

"Do you actually love me that much? I am just not sure. They say, that when a man really loves a women, he would do anything to make her happy, make her feel appreciated. I doubted again.You are a nice person. But do you love me that much? You used to say that, actions speaks louder than words"



But then, if a man really loves a women, he would say I love you even if he knew she might not say it back, he would still wish her good night even if she fell asleep and wish her good morning even though he knew she couldn't reply. He would hug her when she is crying and say everything is okay even though he knew that she wouldn't even care that he is there for she is crying for another man. He would surprise her everything he could think of without feeling embarrassed of how people would think of him. He is willing to sacrifice all of him to her, not wanting anything back, taking every advantage of being with her even if people think that he is crazy, talk to her when no one wants to, stay with her when she feels lonely, listen to her when she is sad, encouraging her to make her move on with courage, give her his time even though he knew that they are not just but good friends. It's not a totally must for a man to do all these to show his love, but if he would, the women will surely, inevitably fall in love with him. Then don't, will then, regret for not doing everything you can to love her, for your chances are gone, your effort is futile, because her heart has, already, been stolen away by somebody else, the one who really made the effort to love her, not letting go of any chances, not taking things for granted, for he loves her, so dearly and deeply, and he would do anything for her, and when he says anything, he means it. He observes. He looked through her. He knew how she feels even more than her boyfriend does. He stays with her, quietly, when she is smiling and talking with another man, he smiles by himself, happy for her that she has found someone whom she loves. He sacrificed his time for her on the phone, even though he knew that he is not allowed to use his phone at such a late night. 

" I think we should give ourselves some time, to think and make our minds clear, so that we can decide whether we should still be together."

Maybe because, she thinks that he does not love her enough, not more than another man.

She is confused, depressed.


Maybe it's better for them to give each other a little time. To lead them closer to the love they want to find.